Frustrated about !!!?

alright, i'm really frustrated as you've already read, but i was searching for questions on s because i have never had one(married 2 years), and i came across all these men who talk about their wive's experiences and how they do what they do like they really care!!! well, i just recently brought this situation up to my husband( about no s) and he completely doesn't want to talk about it. he knows it's not because of him, because i told him that. i'm just so upset over it. he won't let me get a vibrator because he says that's like me cheating on him. whatever. i don't know what to do. is getting worse and worse. what do i do now? sorry for so many details. thanks for any comments, but BE NICE!